If there’s something I’ve learned after practicing psychology for a few years now, it’s the fact that the cardigans, the pressed shirts, and the slacks can get old. In the beginning, you may love the idea of wearing such clothing pieces because they make you look professional. Thus, you will not have to work hard to convince people that you are genuinely capable of helping them get over their mental health issues. The more you keep on following the same routine, though, the more you may feel as if your fashion sense has already suffered enough due to your profession.
Assuming you want to heed your usual advice to the patients to try something different today, and you don’t mind embracing the soft grunge style even if the decision might raise eyebrows, here are a few accessories you should have.
Rings And Earrings
Assuming that this is your first attempt at styling yourself in the soft grunge fashion, and you are not used to it, start small with rings and earrings. They are almost inconspicuous due to their size, but when others catch them on their peripherals, they will be curious about it – and the wearer – you – for having such a fresh flair.
Soft grunge is known for upside down crosses and astronomic designs that are mostly made from silver metal. You can differentiate it from the gothic style when you see that you do not need to be heavily accessorized, in comparison with the latter.
Short necklaces and chokers are also great accessories for soft grunge. Tuck your pearls and other precious gems deep under your jewelry box, and replace them with nylon or studded chokers and silver chains.
That is how you mix Goth and grunge. The black choker is from the former, while the latter softens it a bit. You want to have that laid-back yet dark aura without overdoing it. Of course, you also would like to seem as if you have been already partying when Nirvana and Soundgarden have come out in the 90s, even though you have probably been still in your crib at that time.
You should also think of the kind of top you will wear. If you like shirts with cute little hearts on them, they, unfortunately, have to go because they do not suit the soft grunge fashion. Say goodbye to your neat-looking and colorful blouses as well, as those are not fitting to your rocker chick vibe.
Instead, go for the ones that show more skin. Sleeveless tanks are phenomenal. In case you want sleeves, that’s fine, but lean towards the cropped tops. As for the design, you can’t be more right when putting on something that has the logo of an old band. The older it is, the better. But if that is not available, then those with shady or not-too-happy prints are okay too.
Ripped Shorts Or Jeans
Grungy tops are best partnered with ripped denim. Shorts or jeans or capris – the cut does not matter. It may be better if they have frayed trimmings since that will surely make them look like they have been overly used. You aim to be as rugged-looking as possible. Seamless bottom garments won’t be suitable for this style, though. If your clothes look crisp and clean, then you are already going for a diverse – more boring – fashion.
Another thing that you have to remind yourself of once you accept the soft grunge fashion: wear your sneakers often. It is not only for shorts or pants but for jackets and vests too. The shoes will make you seem even less formal, and that is superb. Anyways, when choosing your kicks, the rule of thumb is that they should be in black, white or gray. They can be a combination of these colors, yet it is preferable if black is just black, white is only white, and gray is just gray.
If the rubber shoes do not suit your soft grunge clothes, look into wearing platforms. Ballet flats are a no-no. The cute strappy sandals and colorful stilettos are going to be out of place in this trend too. Platforms can give you the height that you desire from the latter. They can also be in the form of boots, with or without laces. The thing is, you have to ascertain that they are in neutral tones. Black leather and white suedes are fine, but the ones with caramel or mauve may be going a little too far.
The stylish glasses in the 1990s were full-rimmed and rounded. Therefore, when you pick your eyewear now, whether the lenses are clear or tinted, they should not be rimless. The aviator shades will not be a sweet option for this fashion. Even though they are amazing with a lot of getups, its style can modernize your appearance too much.
Finding the items mentioned above that can kickstart your soft grunge journey is practically a cakewalk. You can get them in almost every department store these days. In truth, you may already possess some or all of them. Hence, nothing should stop you at looking grungy soon. Good luck!