Improving Nutrition To Boost Mental Health

If you are feeling down in the dumps lately, having problems with your relationships or connections, you may have to consider changing your diet completely. The research on nutritional intake concerning the onset of mental health imbalances has connected specific food items that help boost and improve emotional states. Most experts agree with the findings of these studies and have promoted the practice to their patients who are experiencing difficulties in handling psychological conflicts, especially on mood disorders. 

 

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Overcoming Gamophobia: The Fear Of Marriage

Some people have “cold feet” about the idea of committing for life through a sacred bond called marriage. They may be afraid of getting a lifetime commitment; nonetheless, they can have romantic relationships. It may be described by those who have gamophobia that their fear of marriage is parallel to the fear of dying. People having this type of phobia either remain spinsters, bachelors or committed to a single partner for the rest of their life. 

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5 Things Women Are Anxious About

In today’s world where social media makes a tremendous deal of influence, most women are rushing to blend in or make their way to be noticed or be extraordinary. The powerful force of opinion is what runs this world now. It is what causes anxiety in women, and they just don’t want to admit it, or they may be unaware of it.

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Coping Mechanisms for Women to Eliminate Work Anxiety and Stress

Are you lagging at work? Is functioning appropriately such a predicament? Are you feeling exhausted at every turn and are almost always irritable at your colleagues and boss? Are you still meeting goals and deadlines?

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I’d Put My Trust In Online Counseling: I Think I’m Suffering From Anxiety And Depression

                                                                                      

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My mom gave me away for adoption when I was 15. Yes, 15! If I think about it now, I couldn’t fathom why anyone would give away their child at that age. I mean, wasn’t I part of the family? Didn’t they want me?

 

To think they weren’t even struggling in life. My mom gave me away to my wealthy aunt who couldn’t have a child, but regardless, I felt like a puppy! I have three brothers, and I’m the eldest. I was her only daughter, and she gave me away! I thought my stepdad didn’t want me because I wasn’t his. My stepdad was a policeman, and he was the one providing for the family so that I couldn’t ask my mom for anything. At least my brothers can.

 

My first year with my new family was great. I could buy whatever I want which is something I have never done with my real mom. When I turned 17, my step-parents started to argue a lot. The once happy house became so quiet that I felt alone. Nobody cared how lonely it was for me, and I couldn’t demand comfort from my aunt. I thought she was struggling herself. Things got pretty bad, and the family started to fall apart, and I learned that they were getting a divorce.

 

Where Am I going to Go?

 

What’s Going To Happen To Me?

 

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Before everything falls into pieces in front of me, I ran away with a friend. Although I was uncertain of what I was going to do, I felt free. For once in my life, I had control of where I was going to go. I had a choice. We rented an apartment and worked as a performer. I had to drink with the clients, so I was drunk every night. At first, I felt I had the time of my life. I enjoyed meeting new people, and they seemed to enjoy my company. Some men even offered me marriage, but I was enjoying myself too much to settle, and I was always a believer in love.

 

A few months later, my friend left me. She met a guy, and they decided to live together, so I was left alone. I had on and off relationships, but they all didn’t work out. The last one I had made an impact on me. He was an addict, and I was the one supporting him. There were times he’d hurt me whenever he asks for money, but I would tell him no. I knew I had to get out of that relationship, and I’m not that weak to stay when I know I don’t mean anything.

 

I finally had a new place to start a new beginning, again. It’s like having my fourth life. When I got settled, I began to have nightmares and some other odd things happening to my body. I sweat, and I feel like I’m running out of breath. Sometimes, I think that I’m dying, and I just get so scared that it causes me my sleep. I don’t get excited about the stuff that used to be fun for me. I just felt that I am sinking into a dark hole, and I couldn’t do anything!

 

I knew I needed help, so I took the step to get myself to counseling, but I felt nervous and hesitant when I got to the therapist’s office. I got nervous. I didn’t know what to say, so I went out of the building even before I reached the clinic. When I got home, I started to feel weird again. I was sitting on my couch and staring at my computer screen for almost 20 minutes. Then an idea popped into my head, “I might as well look for help online.” Then I spent half an hour reading about online counseling, which I think I’m going to try. I have booked my first session, and I’m hopeful that things will be better for me.

 

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I am ready to know myself and understand why I feel what I feel. Whatever’s in the past is gone, and although I feel sick, I am full of positivity that I am on my way to see better days. I’d put my trust in online counseling.

What Psychiatry Has To Say About Women Who Are Anxious To Get Married

 

We all know someone who can’t wait to have a partner, settle down, and have kids. It seems like their priority in life is to get hitched. Is this feeling normal? What does psychiatry have to say about people, women in particular, who are anxious to get married? Why do they make it a big deal to settle down within a target age? 

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10 Actions To Raise Your Confidence Level

 

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Being a woman is something to hold your chin up for, regardless of your size, race, and age. Especially now in this millennium, you have as much opportunity as any other guy to make your mark on this planet. It won’t be an overstatement to say that there are more lady bosses now than ever in history.

Rather than being intimidated by the accomplishments of other members of the female populace, their success should give an extra boost to your self-esteem. They got to triumph over the obstacles in their path; thus, it’s not impossible for you to achieve that as well.

Should you need tips on how to raise your confidence level, here are the ten actions worth doing:

 

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  1. Correct Your Posture

This advice is a staple whenever you want to feel like you can take on the entire world. Straightening your back and pushing your stomach in and your chest out whether you’re standing or sitting can affect your poise positively.

 

  1. Tune In To Bass-Heavy Music

Listening to songs, in general, opens your heart and mind and allows you to make sound decisions right after. You may notice that the effect is primarily exceptional when the bass overpowers the other tunes in the song.

 

  1. Smell Awesome

It’s easy to say hi to people or present your ideas when you know that you don’t smell like someone who hasn’t seen the shower for a few days. If you’re out all day, it’s best to carry a cologne or perfume in your purse for a quick spritz in between meetings.

 

  1. Accept Praises

The only time you should never welcome a compliment is when you honestly didn’t do a thing to receive such beautiful words. But in case you did create a breakthrough, then accept others’ praises and say thank you afterward. You deserve it, after all.

 

  1. Exercise

Working out helps you lose or maintain your ideal weight, so you’ll be able to wear whatever you want. Aside from that, the activity pushes toxins out of your body and makes you look younger in the long run.

 

  1. Use Your Imagination

Visualization can be as powerful as the words you speak. According to some specialists, imagining that you vividly accomplish your goals increases your positivity. Often, that’s enough to raise your confidence level and enable you to act and bring that vision to reality.

 

  1. Tackle Problems Stat

A confident woman does not hide from complications either, whether it’s personal or work-related. Once you see an issue, you should deal with it immediately to prevent it from expanding to an even bigger problem later.

 

  1. Take Risks

Your self-esteem can benefit as well from your boldness. It isn’t a sign of weakness if you fail while doing a new activity. The opposite is true, however, once you decide not to try it at all.

 

  1. Help Someone

Lending a hand to a friend, a family member, or even a stranger delivers positive vibes to your system. Your action eases the burden the someone else is carrying, and that should boost your confidence.

 

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  1. Smile

Smiling although you don’t feel like doing so is an indication of your inner strength as a person. It’s better to do it often to lighten your mood and heart and have the energy to do tips 1-9.

Dogs Are A Man’s Best Friend [How Owning A Pet Can Help With Anxiety]

Anxiety disorder is a mental health problem that you couldn’t tell how you got in the first place. You couldn’t say you have it until it already messes with your life. It’s like a prison that stops you from doing things you should be enjoying, for instance, swimming, hiking, traveling, etc. When you have anxiety, you get paranoid about your safety and mortality most of the time. You tend to be worried about things that you don’t usually care about.

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Things A Mentally Healthy Woman Never Does

 

It is great to push the limits of what you can and cannot do as a woman in this lifetime. Though gender equality is prevalent in most countries, the fact that there are little sects within the community that assume guys are better at something than girls. For this reason, it seems suitable for you to prove to others that you are as capable as everyone else, regardless of the sex.

Nevertheless, your well-being will genuinely benefit from being picky about the boundaries you’ll cross. To give you a clear image of that, here are the things a mentally healthy woman never does.

 

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Stay With Unrealistic Thoughts

A female with an active mind seeks solace from reality and logic. Cushioning facts or staying inside a bubble isn’t your forte. You can get creative, for sure, but the truth matters to you the most.

 

Eat Too Much Or Too Little

Consuming a lot of food in one sitting is an indication that you’re not feeling well. The same goes for not eating anything for days. Someone who has an excellent grasp of her senses will eat on time and follow a balanced diet to stay in shape.

 

Lose Emotional Attachments

Friends and family members serve as your anchor while you’re still alive. Deciding to cut all the ropes and strings that tie you to them is not the work of a mentally healthy woman. Instead, she tightens the knots by calling and keeping in touch with loved ones on a regular basis.

 

Have Low Sex Drive

The libido of a person who has a psychological disorder is more of a hit-and-miss. Sometimes it’s high, and everything is fine. Other times, a simple hand-holding makes you cringe. Living with a strong mentality, however, entails that your sex drive is stable, if not always soaring.

 

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Get Anxious About Small Changes

Having a sound mind means you do not crumble as soon as one aspect of your day goes crazy. It has much to do with your confidence and level of flexibility. Rather than getting upset or worrying, you just go with the flow and deal with it as if there wasn’t a change at all.

 

Hate Oneself

Of course, as a mentally healthy woman, hating yourself is off the table. If a relationship ends, you cannot take all the blame and guilt since, to be honest, both parties did something wrong for it to happen. As for failures, you have to be calm enough to avoid absorbing the blow of the incident in your life.

 

Hold On To Negative Feelings

Another sign that your mental health is on point is the absence of space for negativities inside your head. You may still feel anger, sadness, or devastation over some challenges you meet along the way, but you try not to store such dark emotions in your system for an extended period.

 

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Lacking Resolution

Last but seriously not the least, a mentally healthy woman knows the purpose of being alive. Walking through the earth aimlessly cannot get your motivational juices up, and that will never sit well in your gut. You have milestones to fulfill at a certain age, and you follow through with it because you feel deep down that you’re on the right path.

 

 

 

Give Your Mind A Break – How To Deal With Social Anxiety?

 

 

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Do you tend to freak out when people invite you to parties, to the extent that friends need to stay with you the night before to ensure you’ll go? What about the instance wherein you have to visit the mall, grocery store, or a crowded restaurant – does that make you worry too?

If the answer is yes to both, then you indeed have a severe case of social anxiety.

One of its causes can be your brain chemicals acting up. Once your mood regulator malfunctions or the neurons in charge of inflicting fear goes into overdrive, you may feel anxious all the time. In different cases, the environment and the things happening in it may be the reason for the personality disorder.

Having you here now, reading this blog, only suggests that you’re on the lookout to give your mind a break from this problem. So, check out how to deal with social anxiety down below.

 

Prepare Yourself Beforehand

Feeling dreadful about going somewhere, whether there are family/friends around or not, comes from the fear of the unknown. “What will others think of me?” “I might not know how to react when someone asks me this or that question.” Well, the solution is to fire queries to your close relation regarding this event you’ll attend. It will offer you a fair amount of understanding of what to expect, as well as what the folks there may expect of you.

You may also meditate and learn breathing techniques, in case the crowd starts to overwhelm you. At times, it also works to keep reminding yourself days before the occasion that there will be lots of people there, but that’s OK since they won’t harm you.

 

Go To The Opposite Side Of Your Imagination

The mind may go on hyperdrive once social anxiety attacks, thus causing unrealistic images to play in your head. Considering you’re already aware at this point what triggers the issue, then you also know once it takes place.

My advice is for you to let everything roll in motion as if you’re watching a movie. Instead of gaining inspiration from what you saw, however, do the opposite of it since that – the latter – is mostly the reality.

 

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Find Something To Do

It may be challenging to get anxious about various stuff if you are busy cooking, talking to your BFF, or even dancing. To be honest, having a lot of available time in your hands can bring the illness to the surface. Hence, to prevent that, make it a habit to focus on tasks and leave no room for worries to affect your sensibility.

 

Reduce Caffeine Intake

Coffee or soda is not suitable for folks with anxiety problems as well, despite how refreshing they may taste. The fact that drinking them can push you at an all-time high means they can bring you down big time too when the effects wear off. There are different ways to feel energized without these caffeinated products.

 

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Sleep Well

Nothing but a healthy dose of slumber can keep all your worries at bay. Lack of it can increase your stress level and make you self-conscious, angry, and fearful of everything more than usual.